yes it is hard and oft times this site doers get you down. I planned to leave a while ago (and here I am still ) but then verbs (of all people considering he and I have had a few stouches, online of course) pointed out that just as you say the game is only a game, this in a way is only a game too. Either enjoy it or leave it. I (mostly) enjoy it nowadays.
Hopefully as the kids turn it around simply by maturing we'll all calm down and find it easier to enjoy football again - I must admit this year is hard - mainly I think because a) my son just is not enjoying watching carlton anymore and this saddens and angers me and b) the standard of football is shite. (sorry clever disgusing of swear word).
as for the spelling really, people who complain about online spelling are missing the point for mine. Online is much more conversational. Don't think penning a latter or an essay, this a robust discussion in a pub.
I do not put in the effort for correction of keyboard errors (which most spelling mistakes are) or true mispelt words when typing on talking Carlton, When I submit professional work I do. Most people here would be the same. The Language is fine, it is just changing, as it always has and must.
as for the swearing. sticks and stones and all that. Words, even swear words, only have the power the reader gives them.
I hope, like me, you can come back and start enjoying this place again. Don't forget the Blueseum, a peaceful reflective place, and read the Ghost, that'll take your worries away.
